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**Pregnancy
Loss
Trigger
Warning**
I
went
in
for
help
because
I
was
going
through
a
miscarriage
and
still
actively
bleeding
at
the
office.
It
was
devastating.
I
called
ahead
and
told
them
what
was
happening
to
make
sure
they
knew.
I
went
in
for
the
appointment
in
a
state
of
shock
and
in
a
fog,
feeling
very
sad
and
emotional.
I
couldn’t
stop
thinking
about
how
I
was
supposed
to
be
in
there
to
hear
my
new
baby’s
heartbeat
but
was
there
instead
for
a
nightmare.
I
had
what
I
perceived
to
be
an
awkward
exchange
with
the
nursing
assistant
because
she
was
asking
miscarriage
questions
and
I
was
feeling
so
emotional
and
could
barely
answer
them
without
bursting
into
tears
so
I
was
giving
quick,
short
answers.
I
will
admit
I
was
not
my
usual
friendly
self
in
my
responses
because
I
was
feeling
so
highly
emotional
but
I
absolutely
did
not
say
anything
mean
spirited
or
outright
mean
to
the
lady.
Then
I
waited
for
30
minutes,
filling
a
pad
and
passing
more
clots,
so
getting
even
more
emotional.
Then
Dr.
Moore
knocked,
walked
in,
sat
down
and
asked
me
what
was
going
on
with
a
grimace
on
her
face.
I
asked
her
what
her
name
was
because
I
had
not
caught
it
and
she
immediately
became
upset
at
me.
She
proceeded
to
tell
me
I
had
been
rude
to
everyone
in
her
office
(including
her
for
asking
what
her
name
was)
and
we
needed
to
“reset”.
She
threatened
that
she
did
not
need
to
provide
me
with
medical
care
for
my
miscarriage
that
day
and
didn’t
need
to
help
me.
When
I
explained
I
didn’t
know
what
had
happened
that
had
gone
so
wrong
and
was
feeling
very
emotional,
she
agreed
with
a
grimace
and
told
me
to
remove
my
clothes
so
she
could
examine
me.
She
said
she
did
not
need
to
run
any
tests
like
urine
or
blood
and
would
just
do
a
vaginal
ultrasound.
At
that
point,
I
was
crying
and
I
felt
very
uncomfortable
and
just
devastated
in
general
and
kind
of
scared
of
the
situation
and
could
not
imagine
having
this
angry
lady
give
me
a
vaginal
ultrasound
and
so
I
left.
I
ended
up
going
to
the
Pali
Momi
ER
in
Aiea
where
everyone
was
SO
kind,
brought
me
back
to
a
room
immediately,
helped
me
with
a
new
pad
and
temporary
underwear
for
the
bleeding,
ran
urine,
blood,
exterior
and
vaginal
ultrasounds
and
despite
my
tears
and
tense
feelings,
understood
and
provided
me
with
excellent
care
and
made
sure
I
was
okay.
I
do
not
recommend
this
practice
to
anyone
who
thinks
you
might
AT
ALL
be
emotional
or
sad
or
scared
during
your
pregnancy
or
have
anything
bad
happen
and
not
treat
their
staff
exactly
how
they
want
to
be
treated
because
they
will
get
upset
with
you
and
make
threats
to
not
provide
care
for
you.
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